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Meeting in person & by Zoom · Brooklyn Park, Minnesota

For every parent who is walking the road no parent wants to be on.

Seasons of Hope is a free, Catholic faith-centered support group for parents whose children are living in Heaven. All are welcome, no matter your denomination or beliefs. You don't have to explain the ache here. We already understand it.

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." — Philippians 4:13

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Why We Began

Founded by a mother who couldn't find this anywhere else.

Seasons of Hope began in 2026, after our founder, Lisa Torbenson, searched for a free, faith-based support group for Catholic bereaved parents near her home — and found none. So she built one. It remains the only free support group of its kind in Minnesota.

Her son Neil is living in Heaven, and his memory is at the heart of everything this ministry does: the Tuesday circle, the journals we write in together, and the quiet conviction that grief and faith are not opposites. They can sit in the same room.

Every session follows the Seasons of Hope journaling curriculum, and Lisa has been in direct correspondence with its author — grounding our group in a program built specifically for bereaved parents, not a generic grief group.

Child loss is unlike any other loss. It carries a grief that doesn't follow the usual timelines and isn't always understood, even by those who love us most. That is why this ministry needed to exist: a space that is free of charge, open to any bereaved parent, and rooted entirely in the comfort found through the sacraments, through Jesus and Mary, and through Scripture. We come together to find that comfort in our faith, side by side.

"Neil's favorite verse was Philippians 4:13. It was true for him, and it has become true for every parent who walks through our door."
"For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal." — 2 Corinthians 4:17–18, Lisa's verse (Neil's Mom)

What To Expect

A Tuesday evening, held gently.

Weekly, in person or by Zoom

We meet every Tuesday evening. Can't make it in person? Join us by Zoom — you're just as welcome from wherever you are. No sign-up required to try your first session.

Conversations from the heart

Each session opens gentle space to talk about our children and the love we carry for them — knowing that they live in Heaven now, and leaning on what brings comfort: shared memory, honest grief, and a community held together by faith.

Rooted in faith

This is a Catholic ministry, grounded in Scripture and the belief that our children are living in Heaven. All bereaved parents are welcome here, no matter your denomination or beliefs, wherever you are in your journey.

Gatherings & Retreats

Beyond the Tuesday circle.

OCT 16–17

Our Hearts Are Home Conference

A two-day gathering for bereaved Catholic parents — teaching, community, and worship centered on hope after loss.

Register for the Conference

OCT 24

Day of Hope Parent Retreat

"The Good Friday of Our Lives" — Minnesota's first Catholic bereaved parent retreat, a full day set aside for prayer, reflection, and rest.

EVERY WEEK

Tuesday Evening Session

Our weekly gathering continues year-round, in person or by Zoom. Check the current Seasons of Hope calendar for this week's location, journal, and topic.

Serving the Spiritual Needs of Grieving Parents

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." — Matthew 11:28

A Catholic ministry for any parent who has a child living in Heaven — at any age, by any cause, no matter how long ago. Losing a child is the most devastating cross a parent can carry, but you were never meant to carry it alone.

Please join us. All bereaved parents are welcome.

When: Saturday, October 24th  •  8:00 AM – 12:00 PM

Where: St. John the Baptist Catholic Church, 18380 Columbus St., Dayton, MN

To register or for more info: call Lisa Torbenson at 612-804-3657 or Cindy Gibbs at 763-442-1980

Register by Email

For more information visit www.sjbdayton.org

Neil's Heavenly Spice Co.

In Loving Memory — Neil's Blend

A memorial spice, created in Neil's honor by his twin brother and his mom — a small, tangible way to bring his memory to your table. "A Very Advanced Palate™," flavored by faith.

Jar of Neil's Blend spice, featuring a photo of Neil

The Story Behind Neil's Blend

"I have a very advanced palate" — there were no truer words ever spoken by my 14-year-old son, Neil.

He loved bold flavors and unforgettable foods — from bloody marys and smoked quiche to dill and feta scones, lobster cheesecake, and smoked salmon chowder.

My sweet Neil went to live with Jesus at the tender age of 14. I created Neil's Blend to honor his adventurous spirit and love of food, alongside his twin brother, who helped bring it to life in his memory.

May this blend bring joy to your table and keep his memory alive with every sprinkle.

INGREDIENTS

Sea salt, garlic, onion, dill, black pepper, lemon peel, spices, and a touch of heat.

PERFECT FOR

Seafood, chicken, vegetables, soups, salads, eggs, and so much more.

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." — Philippians 4:13

Size: 4 oz jar

How to order: Email us to arrange purchase and pickup or delivery — every jar sold supports the Seasons of Hope ministry.

Order Neil's Blend by Email

You Are Welcome Here

You don't have to carry this alone.

Whether you're ready for your first Tuesday or just have a question, we'd love to hear from you. There's no wrong time to reach out.

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Where We Meet
Tuesday evenings — check our current calendar for this week's exact time.
St. Gerard's Catholic Church, 9600 Regent Ave N, Brooklyn Park, MN 55443

Join by Zoom
Can't attend in person? Email us for this week's Zoom link.

Parish St. Gerard's Catholic Church, 9600 Regent Ave N, Brooklyn Park, MN 55443
Archdiocese of Saint Paul and Minneapolis

"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 — Neil's verse